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Watch Your Language
The words we use to describe one another can have an enormous impact on the perceptions we and others have, how we treat one another, mutual expectations, and how welcome we make people feel. The following are guidelines for talking with, and about, a person with a disability. While these guidelines can be helpful, keep in mind the following:
- If you're unsure of the proper term or language to use, ask!
- The best way to refer to someone with a disability is the same way we all like to be referred to: by name.
GENERAL GUIDELINES
OUTDATED OR OFFENSIVE: |
REASON(S): |
CURRENTLY ACCEPTED*: |
|---|---|---|
"The" anything: |
Views people in terms of their disability; |
- People with disabilities |
Handicapped |
Outdated; |
People with disabilities |
The disabled |
An individual is a person before one is disabled. People with disabilities are individuals who share a common condition. |
People with disabilities |
Admits she/he has a disability |
Disability is not something people admit to or needs to be admitted to. |
Says she/he has a disability |
Normal, healthy, whole |
People with disabilities may also be normal, healthy and whole. |
- Non-disabled |
Courageous |
Implies person has courage because of having a disability. |
- Has overcome his/her disability |
SPECIFIC DISABILITIES & CONDITIONS
OUTDATED OR OFFENSIVE: |
REASON(S): |
CURRENTLY ACCEPTED*: |
|---|---|---|
Deaf and dumb
|
Implies mental incapacitation;
|
- Deaf
|
Hearing impaired
|
Negative connotation of "impaired", "suffers" |
- Deaf
|
Slurred speech
|
Stigmatizing |
- Person/people with a communication disability
|
Confined to a wheelchair
|
Wheelchairs don't confine; they make people mobile |
- Uses a wheelchair
|
Cripple
|
From Old English, meaning "to creep";
|
- Has a disability
|
Deformed
|
Connotes repulsiveness, oddness;
|
- Multiple disabilities
|
Crazy
|
Stigmatizing
|
- Behavior disorder
|
Retarded
|
Stigmatizing;
|
- Cognitive disability
|
Mongoloid |
Considered offensive |
Person with Down syndrome |
Stricken/Afflicted by MS |
Negative connotation of "afflicted", "stricken" |
Person who has multiple sclerosis |
CP victim |
Cerebral palsy does not make a person a "victim" |
Person with cerebral palsy |
Epileptic |
Not "person first" language;
|
- Person with epilepsy
|
Fit |
Reinforces negative stereotypes |
Seizure |
Birth defect |
Implies there was something wrong with the birth |
Congenital disability |
Deinstitutionalized |
Stigmatizing;
|
Person who used to live in an institution |
Midget |
Outdated term;
|
Person of short stature |
* All currently accepted terms should be used with "people first" language - i.e., "people with...," "person with...," the exception to this are "deaf people" and "deaf community," which are fine.
Adapted from material developed by : Mid-Hudson Library System, Outreach Services Department, 103 Market Street, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601 (914) 471-6006.
Written by:
Institute for Community Inclusion


